So, you've met your latest Mr. Right Now but something seems a little "off." Are you freaking out for no reason or are your fears real? The love sleuths at Betty Confidential discovered Five Signs He's Not Over His Ex!
1. He Jumped Right Into Your Relationship. Captain Fantastic may say he's over his last love, but if he swung right into your arms chances are he avoided the grieving process entirely. A good clue that he's done is if he can talk about it candidly and admit what went right --and wrong.
2. He Fell For You Before His Relationship Ended. Yes, charmers like JOHN EDWARDS and TIGER WOODS can talk a good game about how their wives don't understand them, but the truth is that's who they're going home to! Remember the old saying --if he does it with you, he'll do it to you!
3. When It Comes to His Ex, He Only Deals in Extremes. Does he snarl when her name comes up or talk about her constantly? Neither are good signs. A good way to discuss the subject is by suggesting you have a conversation about past relationships, what went wrong and what needs to be done differently.
4. He Can't Break the String. If your man has children with another girl or they were together for a long time there's some reason to stay in touch. If neither applies and he likes to correspond, voice your concerns --if he gets defensive that's a major red flag.
5. He Obsesses Over the Remnants of the Relationship. Do you catch him stalking her Facebook page or reminiscing with old photos? Mr. Wonderful is definitely not recovered from the love gone wrong. This doesn't mean your twosome can't work out, but understand you'll be part of the grieving process.
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